• Finally,I didn't receive the confirmation letter from English Debating Team to inform me of the participation of the second round election.I failed,actually,though it was the result I had already known since my entrance into LT6.I don't care actually,about the consequence.But defeat never gives one hilarfity.

    It's the second failure for in a short week.First was the King Jong for UC's 52nd anniversary ceremony.On that specific stage,I felt nothing but miscomfort,since I could not make myself act as actively as possible,just like what other HK guys did.It's kind of personality,I admit,since I was more shy than I ever knew.So I failed without any accident,and defeated by a year one RMS boy,who claimed to have similar experience on the position he competed for.Recalling what I said that night,I felt some words were just improper expressed.I don't want to force myself to feel guilty and cholant.But it is true.

    The way is tough to a promising future.Especially I made it a law career,which requires more than academic backgound with professional level and a outspoken character and even mature in communication.

    The third defeat is around the corner,and I may even get to know nothing about the result.

    Maybe I should regard these failures as a great progress in my life.I step out of my narrow life,and try to face the chanlenges directly.

    I don't know how high a level I can reach.I choose it,I be responsible for it.No regret.No sorrow.

    Fight,Louis!



  • It's always so silent when the regular depression comes without any pre-sight.Just like a sudden storm,and completely captures me so rudely.There was sudden thought in my brain that I should store some chocalates for the incoming lonely night,and maybe like painkillers they will help me go through the dark night.

    Feel guilty for some words and actions in front of friends so strongly.I feel as if I have done something wrong.Too strong an appetite to hearkin and express myself.Maybe just seeking for someone who can mutual understanding and holding.

    But time seems not to await me once I missed someone.And all the people after several terms' tough experience minght have find their own social communication groups.It's a exclusive group and nobody can intrude without a universal permission.

    Sometimes envy those social anminals with perfect communication skills.They have friends everywhere and may get support whenever they need it both actively and passively.For me,help is usually an unneccessary thing to imagine.I guess I hate help.Maybe it roots in my depression since I am scared all the time of refusals from other guys.Just cannot find a point to lever my fragile heart.It seems so brave and strong,and so independent.But inside is the opposite.

    Losing interest in girls.Or maybe the opposite.Nofaith in love and get lost in how to define the so-called a healthy love.Two hearts may easily get tied in a location like CUHK,and maybe a lover is more a pal to each other.

    Feel a little bit missing for my former girl friend.As well as Nuannuan.Both of them are the two most important girls.One is my first girl friend,who maybe used to love me the most and care for me the mostly;while the other is the harbour for my heart.Though she is no longer there.



  • It was already 4 o'clock in the morning when I got back in my dorm after accompanying XU to see a doctor.It was very just out of expectation that it would take me more than 5 hours in this trip.The efficiency and ratio of HK hospitals should of course be douted,but my roommate explained that it was a common phenomenon since HK lacked doctors.And what was worse,you had to assign a lot of documents,like Responsibility Statement and Insurance Certificate.It was ....simply...Amazing!!!!!

    We had a really long dialog actually,and to some extent,I gained a better understanding of XU.Maybe not me,but him,since he kept listening most of the time.I don't know whether I expressed myself in a better way or not,since his words were still  insincerery sometimes.And often over praised me.

    It's ok....four hours...not too long...not too short...at least....I wish...when I need some help...I will get the same  ....or better treatment....like what I had done...



  • It's already midnight when I receive Wheat's message again.Eventually,she said,she had recovered completely from my shadow and effect towards her.I feel a little bit depressed when I just read this note,and for me, it's no longer a good news.

    I knew there won't be a person I can meet in the world like her.We actually are in the same world.Aggressive as we appear,we have the most gentle heart in the world.We like to sense every little emotion,even most of the time,it's depression.People may feel quite surprised when informed that we quite enjoy this type of emotion,since in their mind,happiness is most important and acceptable.In the contrary,when I am left alone,I even try to creat a depressing atmosphere in my little cell for myself.I like to touch every part of the darkness after I turn off the light,and I will feel totally merged in the blue music I turn on along with some Black literature and rememorizing some shadows in my mind.Most of them are not with happiness,but anyway the most unforgettable.

    It doesn't cost nothing as for maintaining some negative and blue memories.Sometimes we try hard to recard them,since our positive heart and the seeking for a better and promising future will remind us of endeavouring to fight and make progress and be diligent.The memories turn out to be the inborn enemies for our career and studies,and they time and time again make you feel lazy and negative.And it takes away with your diligence.But it seems rather tough to recard the memories you value and hate at the same time,and the effort usually gives nothing but tremendous pain and sadness.

     




  • 两个天天在一起的人不一定是朋友,有可能什么都不是。

    从来不要和别人争论什么,因为那是没有结果的,无论谁对谁错。

    手机是有事的时候用的,并不是为了交流感情。

    真心对一个人好不一定有回报,而你忽略的人往往有可能是最重视你的。

    很多东西是可遇而不可求的,很多东西你只能拥有一次。

    恋爱不一定是真心的,有可能是利益关系,有可能是攀比心理。

    原来中学老师教的是那么好,那么负责任。

    很多时候自己遇到不开心事,千万不要渴望别人同情,大多数人会采取冷漠回敬的。那样会更让人家看不起。

    有很多东西是不属于你的,你使劲强求会遭天遣的。

    生活是有很多不公平的,你一定要正视,相信实力和群众的眼睛。

    人的性格可以差异到如此之大。

    一个人要自己对自己好,因为真正关心你的人很少,有了事他们也不一定会在你身边。所以要自己照顾自己。

    课程会在你不经意间,拉下很多,期末考试前不一定能补回来。

    钱用的是那么快,用钱的地方是那么多。

    从现在开始应该把握每一个你能把握的人,放弃你留不住的人,不要因为想留住个别人而失去一群人。

    自己一定在乎自己的自尊,因为你的自尊在别人眼里根本不算什么。

    不要心情不好的时候对周围人发脾气,渴望他们谅解你,人家不是你的父母,现在你可以明白父母对自己多么重要。

    即便有人对情感看的无所谓,你一定要坚信,人之间的感情,有可能会令所有东西无法超越的,但记住,但记住,只是有可能。

    会遇到许多自己看不惯的人或事,但那与你无关,别人爱咋整随他便,别生不该生的气,不值。

    许多曾经的人会变的让你认不出,但请留住回忆。

    会遇到很多诱惑,无论别人怎么样,你是你,你有你的原则和底限。

    会有人很讨厌你或者和你过不去,但是他爱怎么样就怎么样,我们要大度,不和小人计较,但前提是你正确。

    很多人无法理解男女之间的朋友关系,在一起就一定是恋人,不是恋人就一定不能在一起。

    学习要刻苦,因为凭聪明就能应付大学科目的人是风毛翎角。

    原来时间一空闲下来是那么无聊,丝毫没有中学的充实的感觉。

    太在乎别人了往往会伤害自己。

    对自己好的人会随着时间的流逝越来越少。

    可以不把所有人当朋友,但千万不能把一个人当敌人,至少可以当同学。

    玩你能玩的起的,玩不起的千万别玩,不然会输的什么都没有的。

    快乐常常来自回忆,而痛苦常常来自于回忆与现实的差距。

    原来上课,吃饭,上自习常常得自己一个人。

    有很多人的想法与做法你无法理解,或是根本不知道他在想什么,千万别在那揣摩或者瞎猜,那样会让自己累,既然人家要保持神秘感那就让人家保持去啊,自己又不是占星师。

    每个人都是带有“地方特色”的。

    别人请客吃饭或着自己请别人吃饭都是很平常的,甚至请一个不怎么熟的人都是有可能的

    每个人都是认为自己的家乡最好,无论他的家乡贫穷或富裕。


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  •  1. Typical of the grassland dwellers of the continent is the American antelope, or pronghorn. 1.美洲羚羊,或称叉角羚,是该大陆典型的草原动物。 2. Of the millions who saw Haley’s comet in 1986, how many people will live long enough to see it return in the twenty-first century. 2. 1986年看见哈雷慧星的千百万人当中,有多少人能够长寿到足以目睹它在二十一世纪的回归呢? 3. Anthropologists have discovered that fear, happiness, sadness, and surprise are universally reflected in facial expressions. 3.人类学家们已经发现,恐惧,快乐,悲伤和惊奇都会行之于色,这在全人类是共通的。 4. Because of its irritating effect on humans, the use of phenol as a general antiseptic has been largely discontinued. 4.由于苯酚对人体带有刺激性作用,它基本上已不再被当作常用的防腐剂了。 5. In group to remain in existence, a profit-making organization must, in the long run, produce something consumers consider useful or desirable. 5.任何盈利组织若要生存,最终都必须生产出消费者可用或需要的产品。 6. The greater the population there is in a locality, the greater the need there is for water, transportation, and disposal of refuse. 6.一个地方的人口越多,其对水,交通和垃圾处理的需求就会越大。 7. It is more difficult to write simply, directly, and effectively than to employ flowery but vague expressions that only obscure one’s meaning. 7.简明,直接,有力的写作难于花哨,含混而意义模糊的表达。 8. With modern offices becoming more mechanized, designers are attempting to personalize them with warmer, less severe interiors. 8.随着现代办公室的日益自动化,设计师们正试图利用较为温暖而不太严肃的内部装饰来使其具有亲切感。 9. The difference between libel and slander is that libel is printed while slander is spoken. 9.诽谤和流言的区别在于前者是书面的,而后者是口头的。 10. The knee is the joints where the thigh bone meets the large bone of the lower leg. 10.膝盖是大腿骨和小腿胫的连接处。 11. Acids are chemical compounds that, in water solution, have a sharp taste, a corrosive action on metals, and the ability to turn certain blue vegetable dyes red. 11.酸是一种化合物,它在溶于水时具有强烈的气味和对金属的腐蚀性,并且能够使某些蓝色植物染料变红。 12. Billie Holiday’s reputation as a great jazz-blues singer rests on her ability to give emotional depth to her songs. 12. Billie Holiday’s作为一个爵士布鲁斯乐杰出歌手的名声建立在能够赋予歌曲感情深度的能力。 13. Essentially, a theory is an abstract, symbolic representation of what is conceived to be reality. 13.理论在本质上是对认识了的现实的一种抽象和符号化的表达。 14. Long before children are able to speak or understand a language, they communicate through facial expressions and by making noises. 14.儿童在能说或能听懂语言之前,很久就会通过面部表情和靠发出噪声来与人交流了。 15. Thanks to modern irrigation, crops now grow abundantly in areas where once nothing but cacti and sagebrush could live. 15.受当代灌溉(技术设施)之赐,农作物在原来只有仙人掌和荞属科植物才能生存的地方旺盛的生长。 16. The development of mechanical timepieces spurred the search for more accurate sundials with which to regulate them. 16.机械计时器的发展促使人们寻求更精确的日晷,以便校准机械计时器。 17. Anthropology is a science in that anthropologists use a rigorous set of methods and techniques to document observations that can be checked by others. 17.人类学是一门科学,因为人类学家采用一整套强有力的方法和技术来记录观测结果,而这样记录下来的观测结果是供他人核查的。 18. Fungi are important in the process of decay, which returns ingredients to the soil, enhances soil fertility, and decomposes animal debris. 18.真菌在腐化过程中十分重要,而腐化过程将化学物质回馈于土壤,提高其肥力,并分解动物粪便。 19. When it is struck, a tuning fork produces an almost pure tone, retaining its pitch over a long period of time. 19.音叉被敲击时,产生几乎纯质的音调,其音量经久不衰。 20. Although pecans are most plentiful in the southeastern part of the United States, they are found as far north as Ohio and Illinois. 20.虽然美洲山河桃树最集中于美国的东南部但是在北至俄亥俄州及伊利诺州也能看见它们。 21. Eliminating problems by transferring the blame to others is often called scape-goating. 21.用怪罪别人的办法来解决问题通常被称为寻找替罪羊。 22. The chief foods eaten in any country depend largely on what grows best in its climate and soil. 22.一个国家的主要食物是什么,大体取决于什么作物在其天气和土壤条件下生长得最好。 23. Over a very large number of trials, the probability of an event’s occurring is equal to the probability that it will not occur. 23.在大量的实验中,某一事件发生的几率等于它不发生的几率。 24. Most substance contract when they freeze so that the density of a substance’s solid is higher than the density of its liquid. 24.大多数物质遇冷收缩,所以他们的密度在固态时高于液态。 25. The mechanism by which brain cells store memories is not clearly understood. 25.大脑细胞储存记忆的机理并不为人明白。 26. By the middle of the twentieth century, painters and sculptors in the United States had begun to exert a great worldwide influence over art. 26.到了二十一世纪中叶,美国画家和雕塑家开始在世界范围内对艺术产生重大影响。 27. In the eastern part of New Jersey lies the city of Elizabeth, a major shipping and manufacturing center. 27.伊丽莎白市,一个重要的航运和制造业中心,坐落于新泽西州的东部。 28. Elizabeth Blackwell, the first woman medical doctor in the United States, founded the New York Infirmary, an institution that has always had a completely female medical staff. 28. Elizabeth Blackwell,美国第一个女医生,创建了员工一直为女性纽约诊所。 29. Alexander Graham Bell once told his family that he would rather be remembered as a teacher of the deaf than as the inventor of the telephone. 29. Alexander Graham Bell曾告诉家人,他更愿意让后人记住他是聋子的老师,而非电话的发明者。 30. Because its leaves remain green long after being picked, rosemary became associated with the idea of remembrance. 30.采摘下的迷迭香树叶常绿不衰,因此人们把迷迭香树与怀念联系在一起。 31. Although apparently rigid, bones exhibit a degree of elasticity that enables the skeleton to withstand considerable impact. 31.骨头看起来是脆硬的,但它也有一定的弹性,使得骨骼能够承受相当的打击。 32. That xenon could not FORM chemical compounds was once believed by scientists. 32.科学家曾相信:氙气是不能形成化合物的。 33. Research into the dynamics of storms is directed toward improving the ability to predict these events and thus to minimize damage and avoid loss of life. 33.对风暴动力学的研究是为了提高风暴预测从而减少损失,避免人员伤亡。 34. The elimination of inflation would ensure that the amount of money used in repaying a loan would have the same value as the amount of money borrowed. 34.消除通货膨胀应确保还贷的钱应与所贷款的价值相同。 35. Futurism, an early twentieth-century movement in art, rejected all traditions and attempted to glorify contemporary life by emphasizing the machine and motion. 35.未来主义,二十世纪早期的一个艺术思潮。拒绝一切传统,试图通过强调机械和动态来美化生活。 36. One of the wildest and most inaccessible parts of the United States is the Everglades where wildlife is abundant and largely protected. 36. Everglades是美国境内最为荒凉和人迹罕至的地区之一,此处有大量的野生动植物而且大多受(法律)保护。 37. Lucretia Mott’s influence was so significant that she has been credited by some authorities as the originator of feminism in the United States. 37. Lucretia Mott’s的影响巨大,所以一些权威部门认定她为美国女权运动的创始人。 38. The activities of the international marketing researcher are frequently much broader than those of the domestic marketer. 38.国际市场研究者的活动范围常常较国内市场研究者广阔。 39. The continental divide refers to an imaginary line in the North American Rockies that divides the waters flowing into the Atlantic Ocean from those flowing into the Pacific. 39.大陆分水岭是指北美洛矶山脉上的一道想象线,该线把大西洋流域和太平洋流域区分开来。 40. Studies of the gravity field of the Earth indicate that its crust and mantle yield when unusual weight is placed on them. 40.对地球引力的研究表明,在不寻常的负荷之下地壳和地幔会发生位移。 41. The annual worth of Utah’s manufacturing is greater than that of its mining and farming combined. 41.尤它州制造业的年产值大于其工业和农业的总和。 42. The wallflower is so called because its weak stems often grow on walls and along stony cliffs for support. 42.墙花之所以叫墙花,是因为其脆弱的枝干经常要靠墙壁或顺石崖生长,以便有所依附。 43. It is the interaction between people, rather than the events that occur in their lives, that is the main focus of social psychology. 43.社会心理学的主要焦点是人与人之间的交往,而不是他们各自生活中的事件。 44. No social crusade aroused Elizabeth Williams’ enthusiasm more than the expansion of educational facilities for immigrants to the United States. 44.给美国的新移民增加教育设施比任何社会运动都更多的激发了Elizabeth Williams的热情。 45. Quails typically have short rounded wings that enable them to spring into full flight instantly when disturbed in their hiding places. 45.典型的鹌鹑都长有短而圆的翅膀,凭此他们可以在受惊时一跃而起,飞离它们的躲藏地。 46. According to anthropologists, the earliest ancestors of humans that stood upright resembled chimpanzees facially, with sloping foreheads and protruding brows. 46.根据人类学家的说法,直立行走的人的鼻祖面部轮廓与黑猩猩相似,额头后倾,眉毛突出。 47. Not until 1866 was the fully successful transatlantic cable finally laid. 47.直到1866年第一条横跨大西洋的电缆才完全成功的架通。 48. In his writing, John Crowe Ransom describes what he considers the spiritual barrenness of society brought about by science and technology. 48. John Crowe Ransom在他的著作中描述了他认为是由科学技术给社会带来的精神贫困。 49. Children with parents whose guidance is firm, consistent, and rational are inclined to possess high levels of self-confidence. 49.父母的教导如果坚定,始终如一和理性,孩子就有可能充满自信。 50. The ancient Hopewell people of North America probably cultivated corn and other crops, but hunting and gathering were still of critical importance in their economy. 50.北美远古的Hopewell人很可能种植了玉米和其他农作物,但打猎和采集对他们的经济贸易仍是至关重要的。
  • A:Get Finished of the TOEFL vocabulary dictionary checking.

    B:Calls for the Class Party.

    C:Reading Plan.

  • It's really surprising when I received the msg from Sheng YUjie saying that she was on the same shuffle with Nuannuan.Both of them are my good friends,but it seems that they are not so familiar with each other as I do with them.

    It reminded me of the experience that I happened to be on the same shuffle with my former GF.

    You see,the world is always so small.

     

     

  • 2008-08-02

    Reading Plan Two

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  • 2008-08-01

    End...Before Start...

    分类: 偶尔唠叨

    It's already ended before I want it to start.

    This is the situation I faced in the Neworld Education Institute.I have really nice memory here.I got to know some nice guys,such as Jiang,who seems to have the potiential to be a successful bussinessman,Xiaoming,who is always so sincere to his friends,Wangjinbo,who is so nice and passionate to other people,Zhanglei,who is so well-educated with perfect English,and Zhangjinyan,who compulsorily provides me with free NCE CDs,which will mean a great save on my budget.They are really nice,and we even have no quarrels at all.I think I can build a much stronger relationship with Jiang,Wang and Zhang,but before I have intented to do this,my studying period has already come to an end.

    Time is a problem,of course,but if I could be more positive,and pay less attention on my own status,I think the situation would be much better.At least,I can start a relation-building-process much earlier.

    But words return that if they didn't know my background,will they still have the intention to be friended with me?I think not.One good example is Zhu's attitude.Maybe I over considered it,but I still felt that to some extent,it is true.So the problem is controvercial.On the one hand,I want myself to be a "silent"guy-who never shows his own pride and prejudice postively.On the other hand,I also hope that I could be known by others,espercially my great points.

    Maybe I should learn to handle with the matter on how to show and how to hide.



  • Here are some requirements and notices from the LSAC.

    • Letters of Recommendation

      The most effective letters of recommendation are those from professors who have known you well enough to write with candor, detail, and objectivity about your academic and personal achievements and potential. Work supervisors also can write in support of your application. Letters that compare you to your academic peers are often considered the most useful. Most schools do not consider general, unreservedly praiseworthy letters helpful. Some schools do not require letters at all, and may not read letters of recommendation if they receive them.

    • Your Personal Essay

      Each candidate to law school has something of interest to present. Maybe you’ve had some experience, some training, or some dream that sets you apart from others. Law schools want to recruit men and women who are qualified for reasons beyond grades and scores. The essay or personal statement in your application is the place to tell the committee about yourself.

      In general, your evaluation of actual experiences and past accomplishments has more value to the committee than speculation about future accomplishments. Also, if you have overcome a serious obstacle in your life to get where you are today, by all means let the admission committee know about it. Any noteworthy personal experience or accomplishment may be an appropriate subject for your essay; however, be sure to do more than just state it. Describe your experience briefly but concretely, and why it had value to you, whether it is a job, your family, a significant accomplishment, or your upbringing. You are simultaneously trying to add information and create structure. Be brief, be factual, be comprehensive, and be organized.

      You are a storyteller here. You want a living person—you—to emerge. The statement is your opportunity to become vivid and alive to the reader, and it is an opportunity to demonstrate your ability to write and present a prose sample in a professional manner.

    • International Applicants

      Students from other countries are enrolled at US law schools, most frequently in graduate programs (usually called LLM programs) that are designed to meet the needs of people who already hold a recognized law degree from another country but want to learn about the legal system of the United States.

      Procedures and requirements for foreign applicants for the JD or LLM programs vary from school to school. You should contact the individual schools that interest you to learn about each school’s particular requirements. Most schools will ask applicants for whom English is not their native language to take a standardized test such as the Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL) or the Test of Written English (TWE). Each school sets its own standard for required minimal scores on the tests.

      Many schools require foreign-educated applicants to use either LSAC's credential assembly service or another evaluation service to authenticate and evaluate a student’s grades and degrees for US admission committees. The student is responsible for the cost of this service, and some law schools will require you to use a specific service.

      For candidates applying to JD or post-JD programs (LLM, SJD, and other similar degrees), the LSAC offers a credential assembly service that collects, authenticates, and distributes all transcripts and TOEFL scores to each law school where the applicant submits an application. Most law schools subscribe to this service, but candidates should check with individual schools before registering. Detailed information about the service is available at http://LLM.LSAC.org.

      Foreign students must also demonstrate the ability to pay for schooling in this country in order to apply for a student visa (F-1 form). You may be asked to complete a certification of finances form from the law school; if the school is satisfied that the student can pay, it will issue a form (I-20) to submit to the Immigration and Naturalization Service (INS) as part of your application for a student visa. Because of the time required to process entry visas, international applicants are encouraged to apply for admission as early in the process as possible.

      Foreign students may be eligible for institutional grants and loans, but are ineligible for federal loans, and (in most schools) are required to have a US cosigner for private loans. Contact the financial aid office at the schools to which you are applying for more details.

    • Academic Record

      Undergraduate performance is generally an important indicator of how someone is likely to perform in law school. Hence, many law schools look closely at college grades when considering individual applications.

      Course selection also can make a difference in admission evaluations. Applicants who have taken difficult or advanced courses in their undergraduate study often are evaluated in a more favorable light than students who have concentrated on easier or less advanced subjects.

      Many law schools consider undergraduate-performance trends along with a student’s numerical average. Thus, they may discount a slow start in a student’s undergraduate career if he or she performs exceptionally well in the later school years. Similarly, admission committees may see an undergraduate’s strong start followed by a mediocre finish as an indication of less potential to do well in law school. Candidates are advised to comment on irregular grade trends in their applications.

    • Financial Aid Resources

      Keep in mind that the law school is the primary source of information regarding money for legal education.


  • 2008-07-30

    Hey,My Gray Day. - [心的方向]

    分类: 心的方向

    I have been in the state of bad luck for almost half a week,and the state has no sign of stopping all by itself.Sometimes I prefer to owning the quantity of luck to the power of the God,which is a secret to all human beings.Once we do well ourselves,the God praise us by adding luck to our life.What's more,in my mind,some jewellries,like diamonds and special stones,have some mysterious functions,and if you can choose a right one to wear,the stone itself can add to your luck.

    I got several stones from my sister,my parents and my former girl friend.Each of them gave me very good luck when I was wearing it.But now,since I broke with my GF,I didn't wear the necklace stone and the bracelet.I took them off really by accident,since I thought it was meaningless to take them off once we separated.And as for me,I have to admit that I still loved her quite a lot at that time.I belong to th consellation of Cancer,which is always seeking for a sense of fresh.Since she gave me so much pressure,finally I felt that I could no longer tolerate her actions.

    It was past.I think.Completely.Sometimes,and recently so fierece,I have some illution of making love with her.It is natural, I think, especially in my age.But the sign also forced me to think whether I really loved her or I was just looking for a "love" with someone.I think it was stupid to doubt in this way.But you know,I never remomerized any happy situations when I was with her( or maybe quite rarely).

    My Gray Day finally arrived.After being dum for two months.The pain begins to strengthen and so it is with my miss.I have to accept this, since I have no other choices.My life will continue even if someone who is so important to me like my former GF left(of course,except my parents,since they are the reason I grow to me.)So sometimes,when stressing time and time on the significance of valuing your good friends,you should make a change on the way you treat your friendship.They are your friends,of course,and sometimes you have to make some sacrifice when you friends need your help.But when they really think they no longer need you,or you strongly find that they don't treat you like a friend,or you feel your dignity is harmed or not valued,you should let your "friend"go.They no longer are worth your sincerity and you world and life have nothing to do with them.I don't think it is good to show your pride and prejudice when communicating with your friends or having social activities,but dignity and self-confidence come first.You always own somthing which the others forvever lack.And in the endless universe,there is only one YOU!

    The storm also comes.Maybe it's the reason why the days are always so gray these days.Gray days also bring the gray luck.Fortunately,the storm always has a time to fade away.And I hope the sun can erase the gray sky,and brings the good luck back.



  • It's true that when your benefit is harmed,you should go and defend your rights.

    I don't think it's wrong that I am so angry with the assistant's bad way of handling with my reservation,and when she chose to ignore and escape her collegue's mistake,I got even more angry.Nobody will think I have behaved too extremely,but what I wanted to say is,whether it is necessary to be angry with that girl and whether I can choose a more gentle attitude towards some bad and rude treatment.You know,the results won't change no matter which way I choose,and they will never be much better to me if I want them to pay for their mistake and bad service.So in a word,it's just a way to give out my bad emotions,and give myself a "free" method to get more comfortable after suffering from this.

    Think twice before your next anger,especially when the object is your parents.

     



  • 2008-07-27

    累了 - [心的方向]

    分类: 心的方向

    累了。终归还是这样累了。

    在解答和询问中度过一天的大部分时间,不觉得有任何收获,反而是四处碰壁。总希望把事情处理好,但结果总和期望的相反。真心地去对待每一个人,希望也被同样的对待。

    我现在开始明白几年的人际交往空白意味着什么。今天想要偶尔倾诉一下的时候,却发现身边空无一人。于是只好将它再次吞进肚子。死一般的表达能力,以致无法清晰地表述自己的想法。这是理性的回归还是灵魂的匮乏?只是没人能告诉我。

    I am tired.Pretty tired.It's true that love can be a best solution.But I failed to catch and keep my first love.It helped me a lot, I have to admit.At least,Im not so depressed as I was before.And the sadness deep in my heart never burns again.I don't think it has been removed or killed completely.But it was constrained.

    Sorry,my dear.I can't be with you forever.It's me who is always making trouble to our relation.I am the core of our problem.

    I don't know why Im suffering from this mass of social relationship.I wish it can get much better.I have already realized the importance and its meaning to both my emotion and my career.I used to be a guy who enjoyed self-pride and prejudice so much.But now I felt I have changed to another extreme.I need time.I have to tell myself this.It's not an excuse.It's kind of tolerance to my change postively.

    Time to sleep,Louis.Don't be so depressed.Tomorrow is anyway another beginning.

     



  • 2008-07-27

    方式 - [偶尔唠叨]

    分类: 偶尔唠叨

    我真的不知道要怎么做了。只是玩玩游戏嘛,你用得着在我校内RI那么多遍吗?

    有时候寻找一种待人方式真的是太难了。比如我昨天对那个洗脚小姐光火。你可以有不一样的理解。如果你保持沉默,对她的态度置之不理,可以认为是不想惹麻烦,大度,或者是窝囊。但是如果你真的很高声说出来,批评,也可以理解为坚定,有原则,又或者没素质(小气)。总之,这个东西真是太难了。不知道是自己想太多了,太刻意追求完美了,还是这些事对任何人来说都很纠结。。。困惑中!

    我只是尽量寻找最文明的方式对待别人,毕竟我们是受过教育的,你说是伐!!



  • 2008-07-26

    读书计划 - [偶尔小读]

    分类: 偶尔小读

     



  • 2008-07-26

    决定 - [心的方向]

    分类: 心的方向

    终于决定开始写下自己的感受。不管是否为一时的冲动,都决定将它坚持下去。

    一直不是个爱写字的孩子。之前的冲动都是为了博取别人的赞赏,给自己一些渺小的虚荣。这样的动机终究不可持续。当天赋用尽,只剩下了平庸的文字。因此连最后写文的动力都失去了。

    于是开始寻找写文的原因。像当初问父母自己从何而来那样,偷问着那些别人心底的理由。最后,璐的原因还是说服了我。虽然不是很确信用说服是不是合适,但是至少,我觉得在未来可以看见自己一步步的脚印,了解自己在一些特定时候的想法还是很好的。更何况,因为和珊分手了,唯一可以听我倾诉的人也不存在了。所以,我觉得应该让自己释放自我,否则真的很容易被一大堆压力击垮。

    暂时觉得把所有博客的内容当作自谈,如同喜欢的安妮一样,和自己的心灵做一番交流。记录下细微的感动和感受。

    当然,这会花费我很多的时间。只是,若干年后回首,再览这片土地,应该不会为今天的决定感到后悔吧。